In today’s often horrific environment I find myself wondering if kindness is worth the effort. Then I see someone doing something nice for someone else (or for me) and I realize that living in kindness\u00a0is a personal thing. The joy of doing something kind unexpectedly for someone else is not only good for the person you helped, but for you.<\/p>\n
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”<\/strong> \u00a0~ Winston Churchill<\/p>\n “It’s\u00a0not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived.”<\/strong>\u00a0 ~ Golda Meir<\/p>\n There are a ton of websites out there promoting random acts of kindness, including the Pay It Forward Foundation <\/a>. Many offer ideas, many share pictures. My favorite is a YouTube video. Click here to watch<\/a>.Stay with\u00a0it until the end. The recipient’s reaction is priceless.<\/p>\n The following is an article about 5 lovely side effects you receive when you do something nice for someone who doesn’t expect it. Thank you, Dr. Hamilton, for your permission to use it here. I added the photos.<\/p>\n Published on\u00a0May 30, 2011<\/a>\u00a0by\u00a0David R. Hamilton PhD When we think of side effects the first thing that springs to mind are the side effects of drugs. But who\u2019d have thought that kindness could have side effects too?<\/p>\n Well, it does! And positive ones at that.<\/p>\n When we do something kind for someone else, we feel good. On a spiritual level, many people feel that this is because it is the right thing to do and so we\u2019re tapping into something deep and profound inside of us that says, \u2018This is who I am<\/em>.\u2019<\/p>\n On a biochemical level, it is believed that the good feeling we get is due to elevated levels of the brain\u2019s natural versions of morphine and heroin, which we know as endogenous opioids. They cause elevated levels of dopamine in the brain and so we get a natural high, often referred to as \u2018Helper\u2019s High\u2019.<\/p>\n Acts of kindness are often accompanied by emotional warmth. Emotional warmth produces the hormone, oxytocin, in the brain and throughout the body. Of recent interest is its significant role in the cardiovascular system.<\/p>\n Oxytocin causes the release of a chemical called nitric oxide in blood vessels, which dilates (expands) the blood vessels. This reduces blood pressure and therefore oxytocin is known as a \u2018cardioprotective\u2019 hormone because it protects the heart (by lowering blood pressure). The key is that acts kindness can produce oxytocin and therefore kindness can be said to be cardioprotective.<\/p>\n Aging on a biochemical level is a combination of many things, but two culprits that speed the process are Free Radicals and Inflammation, both of which result from making unhealthy lifestyle choices.<\/p>\n But remarkable research now shows that oxytocin (that we produce through emotional warmth) reduces levels of free radicals and inflammation in the cardiovascular system and so slows aging at source. Incidentally these two culprits also play a major role in heart disease so this is also another reason why kindness is good for the heart.<\/p>\n There have also been suggestions in the scientific journals of the strong link between compassion and the activity of the vagus nerve. The vagus nerve, as well as regulating heart rate, also controls inflammation levels in the body.\u00a0One study<\/a>\u00a0that used the Tibetan Buddhist\u2019s \u2018Loving Kindness Compassion\u2019 meditation found that kindness and compassion did, in fact, reduce inflammation in the body, mostly likely due to its effects on the vagus nerve.<\/p>\n This is one of the most obvious points. We all know that we like people who show us kindness. This is because kindness reduces the emotional distance between two people and so we feel more \u2018bonded\u2019. It\u2019s something that is so strong in us that it\u2019s actually a genetic thing. We are wired for kindness.<\/p>\n Our evolutionary ancestors had to learn to cooperate with one another. The stronger the emotional bonds within groups, the greater were the chances of survival and so \u2018kindness genes\u2019 were etched into the human genome.<\/p>\n So today when we are kind to each other we feel a connection and new relationships are forged, or existing ones strengthened.<\/p>\n When we\u2019re kind we inspire others to be kind and studies show that it actually creates a ripple effect that spreads outwards to our friends\u2019 friends\u2019 friends \u2013 to 3-degrees of separation. Just as a pebble creates waves when it is dropped in a pond, so acts of kindness ripple outwards touching others\u2019 lives and inspiring kindness everywhere the wave goes.<\/p>\n A recent scientific study reported that than an anonymous 28-year-old person walked into a clinic and donated a kidney. It set off a \u2018pay it forward\u2019 type ripple effect where the spouses or other family members of recipients of a kidney donated one of theirs to someone else in need. The \u2018domino effect\u2019, as it was called in the New England Journal of Medicine report, spanned the length and breadth of the United States of America, where 10 people received a new kidney as a consequence of that anonymous donor.<\/p>\n ******<\/p>\n This information and all scientific references can be found in more detail in my books, \u2018Why Kindness is Good for You<\/a>\u2019 (Hay House, 2010) and \u2018The Contagious Power of Thinking\u2019<\/a>\u00a0(Hay House, 2011)<\/p>\n Having trouble thinking of something to do for someone that doesn’t cost a ton of money? Check this site.<\/a><\/p>\nThe 5 Side Effects of Kindness<\/h2>\n
\n<\/a><\/em>Retrieved from\u00a0http:\/\/drdavidhamilton.com\/the-5-side-effects-of-kindness\/ on October 21, 2015.<\/p>\n1) Kindness Makes us Happier<\/strong><\/h3>\n
2) Kindness Gives us Healthier Hearts<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3) Kindness Slows Aging<\/strong><\/h3>\n
4) Kindness Makes for Better Relationships<\/strong><\/h3>\n
5) Kindness is Contagious<\/strong><\/h3>\n