{"id":159,"date":"2010-11-22T10:50:56","date_gmt":"2010-11-22T15:50:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wholeperson.com\/wordpress\/?p=159"},"modified":"2010-11-22T10:50:56","modified_gmt":"2010-11-22T15:50:56","slug":"stress-a-matter-of-perception","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wholeperson.com\/blog\/stress-a-matter-of-perception","title":{"rendered":"Stress: A Matter of Perception"},"content":{"rendered":"

Stress can be caused by events, which will produce different reactions in each of us. Events are not good or bad within themselves, but our needs and experiences add context to them. The personal lens that we see events through can make them stressful.<\/p>\n

Every day you face events that you either see as threatening or non-threatening. Which one it is depends on the perception habits<\/strong> you\u2019ve learned. \u00a0These are learned from a young age; you absorb them from people around you. If your parents fought about money, you\u2019re likely to feel finances are stressful. There are many factors that change your perceptions growing up, like your peers, your geographic location, economic status, etc. If you judge an event as threatening, you\u2019ll feel distress. Your unique perceptions change the amount of threat from an event; seeing a large dog may not threaten you at all, but may cause distress for your friend who was bitten by a dog. The amount of distress from an event will change, depending on the level of value you place on what\u2019s being threatened. Maybe you don\u2019t feel threatened by having to miss going out with friends for a work function. But if it were your best friend\u2019s birthday you were missing for work, you would probably feel bad. Perception habits are hard to change, but being aware of them can help you reduce your distress.<\/p>\n