{"id":123,"date":"2010-10-26T11:00:07","date_gmt":"2010-10-26T16:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wholeperson.com\/wordpress\/?p=123"},"modified":"2015-11-30T10:34:53","modified_gmt":"2015-11-30T16:34:53","slug":"how-to-become-more-optimistic-about-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wholeperson.com\/blog\/how-to-become-more-optimistic-about-future","title":{"rendered":"How to become more optimistic about future"},"content":{"rendered":"

Can I learn to be Optimistic?
\nBy Jacquelyn Ferguson MS<\/a><\/h2>\n

Would more money, a nicer house or better health make you more content? Are these the same things that satisfy happier people, too? If not, what can we learn from them to become happier ourselves?<\/p>\n

The Positive Psychology movement finds that you\u2019ll get the most bang for your happiness buck by changing how you:
\n* Feel about your past
\n* Think about your future
\n* Experience your present<\/p>\n

So let\u2019s look to your future.<\/h2>\n

Future-oriented positive emotions include:
\n* Optimism
\n* Faith
\n* Hope
\n* Trust<\/p>\n

You must be fairly optimistic for these emotions to augment your happiness. Optimism is hope about your prospects. In these tough times it\u2019s more difficult to remain hopeful, yet many do.<\/p>\n

Dr. Martin Seligman, the University of PA pioneer of Positive Psychology, author of \u201cLearned Optimism\u201d and \u201cAuthentic Happiness,\u201d and world renown optimism\/pessimism researcher, has shown through extensive research that optimists and pessimists interpret events very differently. Pessimists are more realistic but optimists are more resilient, healthier and may live longer, and are better at work and in sports.<\/p>\n

Seligman has narrowed down becoming more optimistic to changing how you explain why good and bad things happen to you through two dimensions of your \u201cExplanatory Style:\u201d
\n* Permanence versus temporary: for how long do you give up?
\n* Pervasiveness – universal versus specific: how much of your life is affected by events?<\/p>\n

Permanence vs. temporary: Pessimists see causes of bad events as permanent, such as not getting a job interviewed for –\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m all washed up.\u201d<\/p>\n

Optimists use temporary terminology to explain\u00a0\u201cI wasn\u2019t on for that interview.\u201d<\/p>\n

Whose stress lasts longer? Who\u2019s going to give up more easily? Being washed up sounds very permanent.<\/p>\n

Pessimists also use expansive and exaggerated words like \u201calways\u201d and \u201cnever\u201d such as\u00a0\u201cI\u2019ll never get a job.\u201d<\/p>\n

Optimists use \u201csometimes\u201d and \u201clately” such as\u00a0\u201cI\u2019ve had some bad interviews lately.\u201d<\/p>\n

Opposite terminology is used when something good happens.<\/p>\n

Pessimists use temporary terminology to explain why something good happened –\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m lucky to get this job.”<\/p>\n

Optimist use permanent causes for good events –\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m the best candidate for this job.\u201d<\/p>\n

The second dimension of your Explanatory Style is Pervasive: how much of your life is affected by an event?<\/p>\n

For bad events pessimists explain with universal terms and may feel helpless in multiple areas of their lives, like not getting the job:
\n* \u201cI\u2019m such a loser.\u201d<\/p>\n

Optimists use specific explanations and limit any helplessness to the bad event –\u00a0\u201cI wasn\u2019t feeling well that day.\u201d
\nWho is more resilient for the next interview?<\/p>\n

Pessimists use specific reasons to explain why something good happened –\u00a0\u201cI got the job because I\u2019m good at math.\u201d<\/p>\n

Optimists use universal reasons –\u00a0\u201cI got the job because I\u2019m smart.\u201d<\/p>\n

So, to become more optimistic and happier about your future explain bad events with temporary and specific causes and good events with permanent and universal ones.
\nJacquelyn Ferguson, M. S., is an international speaker and a Stress and Wellness Coach. Order her book, Let Your Body Win: Stress Management Plain & Simple.\"LetYourBodyWin.gif\"<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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